Sunday, September 25, 2011
You're Not Thinking Hard Enough.
Actually, I am taking over a position for another wonderful woman who has decided to do some other things and needed to let go of this volunteer activity. She asked me if I'd like to take over. Ooo, the pressure of following in someone's else's footsteps.
What's harder, walking in someone else's shoes or following someone else's shoes?
I am confident in my ability to work with children. No problem. I can gear up or gear down and I can fly by the seat of my pants in most situations with kids. Kids don't scare me. Adults do.
So, we met at the school for introductions and the passing of the torch. "Torch"ure, I should say. They LOVE her. "We'll miss you. Are you coming back? I might cry." Hey, I am sitting here. What am I, chopped liver?
And, I will say, Marianne is worthy of tears. She is an amazing person. She is peaceful and happy and creative (oh, sooo, delightfully creative). She would dress up for the kids and try to make them think it wasn't her. Beautiful. I might miss her and I never saw her do a reading.
So she says her goodbyes and there I am....chopped liver. Should have brought candy. phhfft.
It went well. Introductions, a lot about me, my family, my books and all that. A get to know me session. I read a couple of books. The kids were attentive and fun. But i felt a bit under scrutiny by the teachers. I hate that.
I am not Marianne (though I'd love to adopt some of her qualities). As my Flip Side Story, A Day Without Ms. Hatting, teaches, "When Ms. Hatting is gone, it just can't be the same." When Marianne is gone, it just can't be the same. It can be just as good.
Kids are resilient and open to most new situations. I didn't fear that. The adults, on the other hand, have a more difficult time with change. Change is ok. New things are ok if you don't compare them to the old too critically. As the old Brownie saying says, "Make new friends but keep the old."
Actually, it should say, make new friends but keep the current ones. Old isn't working for me these days.
Embrace new things but retain the old.
It is important to give people a chance. They may not live up to your expectations but be open to the unexpected. Look for the good in people even if the bad is more prevalent. You might find that you will learn something new about yourself through that person.
Do you see the cup half full or half empty? Do you see people half good or half bad?
One of my favorite saying is, "If you don't have anything nice to say, you aren't thinking hard enough."
Make it a habit to tell people thank you. To express your appreciation, sincerely and without the expectation of anything in return. Truly appreciate those around you, and you'll soon find many others around you. Truly appreciate life, and you'll find that you have more of it.